Ties

Your connections,
in context.

The personal relationship manager that runs on plain Markdown files. No databases. No vendor lock-in. Readable by you, your favorite editor, and your (future) AI assistant.

Features

Built for how you actually think

Most relationship managers are databases in disguise. Ties is a second brain for your social life.

Graph view

Your social graph

Visualize how people connect. See relationships, shared groups, and who introduced you to whom — all derived from the links in your Markdown files.

Journal

Journal that remembers

Write daily entries and reference anyone with [[wikilinks]]. Ties shows you your history with each person — what you talked about, gift ideas, important dates.

2026-02-28
Team lunch
We had a great lunch and talked about our future goals.
2026-02-24
Catch-up with Best Friend
Finally called Best Friend after too long. We talked for almost two hours — caught up on everything. They're thinking about moving cities.
Reminders

Never forget a birthday

Ties sends native push notifications for birthdays, check-ins, and any custom reminder you set. On-time, on-device.

Integrations

Fits into your workflow

Subscribe to a live calendar feed from any app*. Birthdays, check-ins, and reminders appear in Apple Calendar, Google Calendar, or wherever you plan your day. * Requires Plus.

Apple Calendar
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Open format

Plain text, forever yours

Every contact lives in a Markdown file with YAML frontmatter. Open it in any editor, sync it with Git, back it up your way. No lock-in, ever.

sarah-chen.md
---
name: Sarah Chen
birthday: 1994-03-15
groups: [family, college]
tags: [bridesmaid]
---
Met at orientation week. She's the
one who got me into climbing.
SC
Sarah Chen
Mar 15, 1994
family college
bridesmaid

Met at orientation week. She's the one who got me into climbing.

Privacy-first

Private by default

Your data stays on your devices. The free tier requires no account and no server. Pay for sync only when you want it — not as a condition of using the app.

~/ties-vault
people/ 3 files
sarah-chen.md 2.1 KB
alex-kim.md 1.8 KB
jordan-ellis.md 3.2 KB
journal/ 12 files
2026-03-01.md 4.5 KB
2026-02-28.md 2.3 KB
2026-02-15.md 1.9 KB
+ 9 more
reminders/ 5 files
birthday-sarah.md 0.4 KB
check-in-alex.md 0.3 KB
+ 3 more
Stored locally on your device

AI-Ready

What you see,
your AI sees.

Your contacts and journal are plain Markdown files — any AI can read them from day one. No export needed, no special format.

Ties also connects directly with your AI assistant of choice — giving it real-time access to your contacts, journal, and reminders, not a stale snapshot. No copy-pasting context before every conversation.

Full access to your contacts, journal, and reminders

Works with any MCP-compatible AI assistant

Hosted endpoint included with Plus tier

Claude
When is Sarah's birthday? What should I get her this year?

Sarah Chen's birthday is March 15th — that's in 14 days! 🎂

From your notes: she mentioned wanting to try pottery classes back in January, and you gave her a book last year.

A pottery class gift card might be perfect. Want me to draft a message for her?

Yes please, and remind me 3 days before.

MCP integration (Plus tier feature)

Get started

Download Ties

Free forever. No account needed. Desktop on Linux, macOS, and Windows. Mobile on Android and iOS.

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